Kick Your Worst Relationship Habit to the Curb!
It’s another Wednesday night, and you’re plunked down on the couch in front of Netflix with a glass of wine, and you pause for a moment, thinking about how nice it would be to watch your movie snuggled up with a sweetie. You’re lonely, but you only feel it on nights like this when you have a few hours in your busy schedule that aren’t already spoken for with work, kids, the gym, or spending time with your girlfriends.
You know you want a relationship, but you remember relationships being more work than they are worth. In your past relationships, you gave more than you took, and you lost a part of yourself along the way. You like who you are now, and it’s gonna take quite a man for you to be willing to give any of that up – but if you’re being honest, you don’t want to give up anything at all.
And besides, you don’t like dating! You can’t seem to find a guy you’re attracted to that wants what you want, so why bother? You might be afraid to admit it to yourself, but you really want more than just someone to snuggle with, and that feels so hard to come by. You’d rather spend time doing things you love than waste your time with men who only want to hook up or that you simply can’t relate to.
But deep down, you know you’re ready.
You’re ready to have companionship and intimacy in your life again. You want someone to cuddle with, have fun with, and who you can trust with the most vulnerable parts of yourself. You’re hoping for love.
You’re ready to take the lessons you learned in your last relationship and know that you won’t make the same mistakes again. You’re excited to be emotionally available for a relationship where you stay true to yourself. You’re ready to let down your walls and share part of your life with a man who understands that there’s more to it than just him.
Just because you’re ready doesn’t mean you have to do it alone.
I’m a relationship-readiness coach for independent women who feel like finding companionship and intimacy is impossible without giving up lives they love. They don’t have the time, the energy, or the patience to date, but really, they’re scared that they’ll repeat the same patterns and lose themselves in a relationship all over again. I teach my clients to own who they are and what they want so they can feel ready to find the right amount of space in their lives to share with a guy who gets them.
Easy and straightforward steps equal steady progress.
As a result of this coaching program, you will…
- Identify the parts of yourself and your life that you really don’t want to lose this time around.
- Understand the one core habit that led to you losing yourself in relationship – and how to start doing it differently.
- Feel confident that you can keep the life you already love.
- Learn the key phrases to use – on yourself AND with a guy – to get a relationship off to the right start when you do meet someone that feels right.
This package includes:
Celebration of Single!
You’ll get to do a quick and dirty on the ‘you in your last relationship’ compared to the ‘you now’. You’ll celebrate how far you’ve come in reclaiming yourself and your life – what’s great, what’s important, what you love, and we’ll bookmark the things you don’t want to lose about it. We’ll also take a look at how you lost part of yourself in the first place.
Relationship Revelation Session
In this 60-minute coaching session, we’ll use your Celebration of Single as a guide for places to grow. We’ll break down the one bad habit and find all the ways it has shown up in the past for you – and then we’ll find ways to leave that habit in the past by replacing it with a new one. You’ll also gain confidence in how to not lose yourself with my practical tips for how to work with yourself and a potential partner around this.
You’ll receive one customized experiment to practice replacing your old relationship bad habit with a new, better one. You’ll try it out in the real world over the 7-10 days after the call. You’ll get to see for yourself what happens when you fully own what you want and what’s right for you.
During this 30-minute session, we’ll review your Habit-Breaker Experiment together, see what you’ve learned about yourself, and lay out how to apply it moving forward towards a relationship.
Good Habits Communication Hot Sheet
You’ll also receive a helpful handout of things to say, both to yourself and potential partners, when starting to date or head on your way towards relationship. These communication tools will support you to ensure that you create good initial habits to not lose yourself with a guy. They will also serve as a great filter for guys that will or won’t want you to give up your whole life for them! 🙂
You can have it.
You can finally move forward to have the relationship that you truly want. I can help you to develop the confidence and skills to have it without losing any parts of who you are.
Ready to move towards finding the relationship you want? Let’s do it! Here’s how to get started.
Step 1: Make your payment here.
Step 2: Book your first session.
Step 3: Within 24 hours of making your payment & appointment, you’ll receive an email with a link to download your Celebration of Single worksheet.
Step 4: You’ll return your completed Celebration of Single worksheet to me 48 hours prior to our session.
Step 5: We’ll hold your session and get you started on new habits to have the relationship that embraces the whole you!
Have questions? Email me.
What Clients Are Saying
”Since working with Rachel, I’m definitely looking at dating differently. I’ve started to think that the troubles I have are very much issues I may be creating myself, specifically, my over-independence and unwillingness to ask for help.
I was hesitant at first about working with Rachel because I was worried she would think I was a loser for not being able to sustain a relationship and that she would give me advice I didn’t believe in.
Turns out, Rachel is awesome, relatable, and straight-talkin’. She doesn’t just follow a formula from a book. And better yet, you won’t be able to continue using the excuses you’ve used before!”
Stephanie Hayes, Squamish, B.C., Canada
“You sparked a revolution in my thinking around what’s possible in relationships and though I’m doing it in my own way, taking small steps to be more open and honest about my feelings, needs and wants in relationships, I have taken those steps and it feels good to be on the way to more!
I now think of what I want as much as I think of others; I give myself more permission to think of myself first. The biggest takeaway I got was that I can communicate and ask for what i want and I don’t have to worry about that being ‘reasonable’ or ‘right’.”
Michelle Ayn Tessensohn, Singapore
“Working with Rachel, at first I felt a little vulnerable to be sharing about such a personal topic, but she was a good listener and made me feel comfortable – it was actually fun to work with her. I now feel more confident about communicating my feelings and needs to others, even when they aren’t being asked for.”
C. G., Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania