Your First Step to a Relationship without Self-Sacrifice
It’s another Wednesday night, and you’re plunked down on the couch in front of Netflix with a glass of wine, and you pause for a moment, thinking about how nice it would be to watch your movie snuggled up with a sweetie. You’re lonely, but you only feel it on nights like this when you have a few hours in your busy schedule that aren’t already spoken for with work, kids, the gym, or spending time with your girlfriends.
You know you want a relationship, but you remember relationships being more work than they are worth. In your past relationships, you gave more than you took, and you lost a part of yourself along the way. You like who you are now, and it’s gonna take quite a man for you to be willing to give any of that up – but if you’re being honest, you don’t want to give up anything at all.
And besides, you don’t like dating! You can’t seem to find a guy you’re attracted to that wants what you want, so why bother? You might be afraid to admit it to yourself, but you really want more than just someone to snuggle with, and that feels so hard to come by. You’d rather spend time doing things you love than waste your time with men who only want to hook up or that you simply can’t relate to.
But deep down, you know you’re ready.
You’re ready to have companionship and intimacy in your life again. You want someone to cuddle with, have fun with, and who you can trust with the most vulnerable parts of yourself. You’re hoping for love.
You’re ready to have a man in your life who really gets you and the things that are important to you. You’re excited to find a relationship where you stay true to yourself. You’re ready to let down your walls and share part of your life with a man who understands that there’s more to it than just him.
Just because you’re ready doesn’t mean you have to do it alone.
I’m a dating coach for independent women like you who feel like finding companionship and intimacy is impossible without giving up the life you love. You’ll learn how to own who you are and what you want so you can find the right amount of space in your life to share with a guy who really gets you.
Easy and straightforward steps equal steady progress.
As a result of this coaching program, you will…
- Kick start the process of finding the guy that really gets you.
- Feel a clear “yes” or “no” about the men you encounter – no more wasting time on poor matches!
- Identify the parts of yourself and your life that you really don’t want to lose this time around.
- Feel confident that you can keep the life you already love – and have the basic communications skills to make sure you do.
- Have an uncompromising picture of the relationship you really want.
This package includes:
The Love Lists
You’ll get to spill your guts and your mind on everything you’ve ever wanted (and not wanted) in a relationship. You’ll clarify what you want, which will make saying yes and no to individual men that don’t fit infinitely easier!
Relationship Revelation Session
In this 90-minute coaching session, we’ll turn your Love Lists into your Relationship Guide, which will express a really clear picture of the relationship you want, including the personal boundaries you want to maintain. You’ll gain confidence in how to not lose yourself and be able to use new communication techniques for conveying your wants and needs in a relationship.
You’ll receive one customized experiment practicing personal boundaries or new communications skills to try out in the real world over the 7-10 days after the call. You’ll get to see for yourself what happens when you fully own what you want and what’s right for you.
During this 30-minute session, we’ll review your Relationship Experiment together, see what you’ve learned about yourself, and lay out how to apply it moving forward towards a relationship. You’ll also receive tips on how to create your own experiments, using your Relationship Guide as a guide.
Your Relationship Guide
You’ll also receive an editable draft of Your Relationship Guide. This is your written agreement with yourself for the relationship you want and for the person you want to be in a relationship. You’ll be able to refer back to it to as you look for, meet, and get to know a guy you like for insight on how to work with yourself to both decide if he’s a good fit for you and to set the stage for the relationship that you want.
You can have it.
You can finally move forward to have the relationship that you truly want. I can help you to develop the confidence and skills to have it without losing any parts of who you are.
Ready to move towards finding the relationship you want? Let’s do it! Here’s how to get started.
Step 1: Make your payment here.
Step 2: Book your first session.
Step 3: Within 24 hours of making your payment & appointment, you’ll receive an email with a link to download your Love Lists worksheet.
Step 4: You’ll return your completed Love Lists to me 48 hours prior to our session.
Step 5: We’ll hold your session and get you started on finding the guy that gets you!
Have questions? Email me.